No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that others are missing.

Focus on what you do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.

Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.

Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.

It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.

The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.

The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists; it rewards people who get things done.

Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.

from bitter to better

Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.

from bitter to better

Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your heart is right.The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.

from bitter to better

eve

Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.v

from bitter to better

Life’s curve balls are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curve balls thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.

from bitter to better

Don’t worry about what others doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.

from bitter to better

wrong reasons

Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.

from bitter to better

If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
 Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.

from bitter to better

We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

from bitter to best

Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.

FROM BITTER TO BEST

You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.

FROM BITTER TO BEST

One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.

FROM BITTER TO BETTER

The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.

FROM BITTER TO BEST

You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves

FROM BITTER TO BETTER

Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.

 

FROM BITTER TO BETTER

As a famous quote says, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending….” Nothing could be closer to the truth. But before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back.
 Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.

Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.

delivary occured by PARLIAMENT

ONE chapter is closed.who has a credit or discredit god knows but it is passed. it was like a pregnant  woman who wants delivery may be son or daughter or still birth , now she is free from the burden carrying since 9 months. now the fate of the delivered child who goes to bad or good direction.it was pending since long and now passed . it's credit goes to ruling party, oppositions and also ANNA.IT is the beauty of the bill , AAP is dissociating this bill.no doubt the bill may be good .it will take time for execution.we will get result after some time. so it is accepted by all parties except SP. because they are so corrupt that is why they are worried. their future is in dark.so they do not like such bills.

SINS/VRATTAS

in every philosophy there are some principles those are acting  as a fortress . king is safe in fortress due to some principles. in Jainism AHIMSA, ANEKANTVAD AND APRIGRAHA ARE THE FORTRESS OF JAIN PHILOSOPHY.in jainism AHIMASA IS the foundation of humanity, and through that we can establish peace, friendship and also salvation of our soul.today we are suffering more and more due to violence. violence is we are doing many ways and particularly by 108 types.4KASHAYAS 1 KRODHA 2MAAN 3 MAAYA 4 LOBHA*3 1 MAN 2 VACHAN  3 KAAYA/KARAMA*3 1SAMARAMBHA 2 AARAMBHA 3SAMAARNABHA * 3 KRATA 2 KAARITA 3 ANUMODAN== 108 so in jain philosophy the description of ahimasa is described in details. like wise due to more possessions , hoardings we are facing many problems in govt and in social life.anddue to not respecting the opinions of others , egoistic fights are more and more .
i want to say that there are 5 SINS 1 hinsa(violence)  2 jhooth (untruth) 3 chori( stealth) 4 kusheel( non celebacy) 5 parigraha ( possession) in whole world and in every country the rules and regulations are for only 5 sins. and their treatments are  5 VRATTAS 1 AHIMSA(NON VIOLENCE) SATYA(TRUTHFULNESS) 3 ACHAURYA (NON STEALTH) 4 BRAHMA CHARYA (CELIBACY)  5 APPRIGRAHA ( NON POSSESSIONS) so we have to  ERADICATE sins by vrattas

I heard somewhere that to grow in life one has to be dissatisfied. If I’m satisfied, I may not want to grow in life. What should one choose to grow further in life — discontentment or peace of mind?

Will dissatisfaction give you peace of mind? It can give you the road map for growth but will it give you happiness? No. Acharya Mahapragya said, be dissatisfied with the knowledge  you have gained and be dissatisfied with your actions or the things that you are not doing right today. Material wealth and prosperity alone can never give you complete satisfaction.

Necessary and unnecessary violence is subjective. For instance, for a butcher, hunting or a killing may be necessary. How does one deal with this subjectivity?   

There are certain principles that are universal. Violence will always be criticised. Violence first hurts our own consciousness. Our own mind gets contaminated by negative thoughts. It’s a fine line to find out what is necessary and unnecessary. Each individual has to choose. Everyone has a choice, so ask the question to yourself and listen to what your consciousness says. What your consciousness speaks is the right action for you to do. 

If you hear the voice of your own consciousness, you will get solutions to your problems. 

According to a French Indologist, Hindu philosophy allowed for various forms of interaction, including the kshatriya dharma; therefore, the practice of nonviolence was meant for individual enlightenment but could not be applied to social and political interactions because of the role of warrior-protector. Why then is everybody expected to behave as a Shramana?

In Shramana culture (ancient Indian religious movement, parallel to vedic traditions), they talk about two lifestyles. One is for the monks and nuns, dedicated to living a life of nonviolence. The other is the lifestyle for lay people, shravakas meaning householders. Shravakas give up unnecessary violence but they have to do necessary violence. Not thinking bad of others, not committing murder, not killing, for instance, hunting and fishing. Unnecessary violence can be given up, but necessary violence, when you have to do business, live with the family, there you have to draw a line. 

When we talk of philosophy, there are many interpretations. If you put them all together, it will give a way of coexistence. Anekantavada says don’t fight with each other; understand what the other person wants to say. It gives the solution wherever there is conflict. These are the basic principles of Jainism, which are relevant even today and allow all countries to coexist peacefully in the modern world. 

Talk delivered at IIC, Delhi and reported by Sonal Srivastava

The third principle that Mahavira emphasised is that truth can be understood by multiple viewpoints. In Sanskrit, it is called anekantavada. It means that truth cannot be taken as absolute; it is nonabsolute. There are multiple ways to understand the truth; everyone talks about one single viewpoint, but if you put all the pieces together, then it becomes a beautiful truth and it becomes Ultimate Reality. There are multiple ways to understand reality. The perfect example of anekantavada is the story of six blind men trying to perceive the elephant. All of them had a different perception but if we put all those perceptions together, you will get a picture of an elephant. 

When we talk of philosophy, there are many interpretations. If you put them all together, it will give a way of coexistence. Anekantavada says don’t fight with each other; understand what the other person wants to say. It gives the solution wherever there is conflict. These are the basic principles of Jainism, which are relevant even today and allow all countries to coexist peacefully in the modern world. 

Talk delivered at IIC, Delhi and reported by Sonal Srivastava

When we talk of philosophy, there are many interpretations. If you put them all together, it will give a way of coexistence. Anekantavada says don’t fight with each other; understand what the other person wants to say. It gives the solution wherever there is conflict. These are the basic principles of Jainism, which are relevant even today and allow all countries to coexist peacefully in the modern world. 

Talk delivered at IIC, Delhi and reported by Sonal Srivastava

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Respect all forms of life. Nonviolence can be practised through our mind, speech and physical actions. If my words are not hurting anyone, my speech is nonviolent; if my thoughts are positive, my thinking is nonviolent and if my physical actions are not hurting anyone, I’m communicating through nonviolent actions. To listen to others and respect others is a quality of understanding. There are two ways of nonviolence — active and passive. Sometimes, we practise passive nonviolence and then we don’t speak up even when somebody hurts us, because we think that we are being dominated. Active nonviolence is when we don’t react in a violent manner but in a nonviolent way, for instance, the Civil Disobedience Movement, launched by M K Gandhi in the 1930s. React, but communicate without aggression. Through our body, speech and mind, we can practise an active way of nonviolence. Peace is possible only through nonviolence.

People fight for possession. Possession is of different kinds — power, politics, and of thoughts or of the material world. Whenever we try to dominate somebody or even ourselves, it becomes possession. We can be attached to anything — to a person, material or to a building. Mahavira said Mucchaha prigraho utto; ‘mucchaha’ means attachment, whatever we are attached to (our desires can be really dominating) could lead us to deviate from the right path. If there are less possessions, there will be less violence. It will result in a peaceful way of living. If it can be practised in our day-to-day routine, it will give us a restful mind and that will help us become more spiritual. Nonpossession doesn’t mean that you don’t keep anything but it means limited possession, having satisfaction that leads to a peaceful lifestyle

Mahavira realised that living a luxurious life will not give happiness, so he renounced and led a simple life. In Jainism, enlightenment means Kaivalya gyan meaning pure knowledge, which can be seen without the help of the senses or the intellect. It is pure knowledge that comes from atman. Mahavira practised for 12 years, ate and slept very little, and spent most of his time in meditation. Mahavira asked people to practise ahimsa. Jainism has three major principles: ahimsa, nonviolence; aparigraha, nonpossession and anekantavada, multiple perspectives.

Respect all forms of life. Nonviolence can be practised through our mind, speech and physical actions. If my words are not hurting anyone, my speech is nonviolent; if my thoughts are positive, my thinking is nonviolent and if my physical actions are not hurting anyone, I’m communicating through nonviolent actions. To listen to others and respect others is a quality of understanding. There are two ways of nonviolence — active and passive. Sometimes, we practise passive nonviolence and then we don’t speak up even when somebody hurts us, because we think that we are being dominated. Active nonviolence is when we don’t react in a violent manner but in a nonviolent way, for instance, the Civil Disobedience Movement, launched by M K Gandhi in the 1930s. React, but communicate without aggression. Through our body, speech and mind, we can practise an active way of nonviolence. Peace is possible only through nonviolence.

People fight for possession. Possession

 

I heard somewhere that to grow in life one has to be dissatisfied. If I’m satisfied, I may not want to grow in life. What should one choose to grow further in life — discontentment or peace of mind?

Will dissatisfaction give you peace of mind? It can give you the road map for growth but will it give you happiness? No. Acharya Mahapragya said, be dissatisfied with the knowledge  you have gained and be dissatisfied with your actions or the things that you are not doing right today. Material wealth and prosperity alone can never give you complete satisfaction.

Practise ahimsa, aparigraha and anekantavada to bring peace to the world, says SAMANI CHARITRA PRAJNA, vice chancellor, Jain Vishva Bharati Institute

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Practise ahimsa, aparigraha and anekantavada to bring peace to the world, says Everything is possible through self-effort. Here, Self means Atman — roughly translated as consciousness. Atman is a technical word. Consciousness means I’m alive; atman is deeper. Atman cannot be seen, but it can be felt. If we are aware of each and every moment of our life, it means we are one with our own Self. When we are not aware of our own Self, then we are not aware of our own consciousness. Inner awareness is experience of Self or realisation of atman. 

In Jain philosophy, it is said that each individual has an independent atman, and that there are billions of atmans. All life forms whether they have one sense or three or five senses have consciousness and have atman. Water, air, fire, earth, everything has life and they have the same kind of feelings that we have. Infinite knowledge, 

infinite action, infinite energy and infinite bliss are the basic characteristics of a soul, but right now, because of our layers of karma, these qualities are not awake in us. Layers of karma cover our infinite knowledge, so we can see only through our senses. The word Jina means a qualitative person who has overcome his inner enemies, not of the outer world but of the inner world, in the form of anger, ego, pride, deceit and greed. These are the major enemies of our soul — the reason why the soul cannot realise its own nature. The ultimate aim of the soul is to come back to its own nature, and that happens only when bad qualities are annihilated. 

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Mahavira realised that living a luxurious life will not give happiness, so he renounced and led a simple life. In Jainism, enlightenment means Kaivalya gyan meaning pure knowledge, which can be seen without the help of the senses or the intellect. It is pure knowledge that comes from atman. Mahavira practised for 12 years, ate and slept very little, and spent most of his time in meditation. Mahavira asked people to practise ahimsa. Jainism has three major principles: ahimsa, nonviolence; aparigraha, nonpossession and anekantavada, multiple perspectives. 

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Mahavira realised that living a luxurious life will not give happiness, so he renounced and led a simple life. In Jainism, enlightenment means Kaivalya gyan meaning pure knowledge, which can be seen without the help of the senses or the intellect. It is pure knowledge that comes from atman. Mahavira practised for 12 years, ate and slept very little, and spent most of his time in meditation. Mahavira asked people to practise ahimsa. Jainism has three major principles: ahimsa, nonviolence; aparigraha, nonpossession and anekantavada, multiple perspectives. 

Mahavira realised that living a luxurious life will not give happiness, so he renounced and led a simple life. In Jainism, enlightenment means Kaivalya gyan meaning pure knowledge, which can be seen without the help of the senses or the intellect. It is pure knowledge that comes from atman. Mahavira practised for 12 years, ate and slept very little, and spent most of his time in meditation. Mahavira asked people to practise ahimsa. Jainism has three major principles: ahimsa, nonviolence; aparigraha, nonpossession and anekantavada, multiple perspectives. 

love your parents

young son always irritate  in such manner. like wise this story, one monk/saint was sitting in his ashram. his old friend came to him  and he recollected his memories and remembered and asked the saint , are you MULAYAM  CHAND, the saint said yes i am MULAYAM CHAND.after some discussion then his friend asked the same question, are you mulayam chand  so saint replied in painful tone yes I AM MULAYAM CHAND ok friend said .after some time friend asked are you mulyam chand  so saint rebuked him  and saint you are seems to be mad. i told you that i am mulayam chand  and you forget. so his friend said you are not MULAYAM CHAND  BUT NOW YOU ARE HARD CHAND. because in saintly state you should be arrogant. you must be calm in every state. if you are in irritative state so you are   not saint/monk.

*Once, an old man was sitting on a bench of a garden with his 25yrs old son. There was a tree beside the bench. Old man saw a bird sitting on the tree. He asked the son- what’s
this? Son replied- it’s a crow.

The old… man again asked what’s this? Son said- I already told u that it’s a crow. The old man again asked what’s this? Son angrily said- are u deaf or mad, papa? How many times to tell u it’s a crow. Can’t u understand?

Old man patiently replied- my dear son, when u were 5yrs old, u asked me 174 times the same question that what’s this and i replied everytime with a kiss that, it’s a crow! Now, I askd u 3 times and u were irritated.

NOTE: It’s the difference between the love of parents and love from the  children

So please do your duty when your parents are dependent on u. Don’t hurt them.
Love your parents, you’ll be in their shoes soon*

to respect the opinion of others

EVERY COIN HAS two sides. ARGUMENTS ARE ENDLESS. CONTROVERSIES ARE THE PART OF POLITICS. you can not please every one. it is my advise to AAP  this is not the end of bill. from here it is the beginning . there will be more chances of amendment,so first accept and then fight will continue. always respect the opinion of others. it may be wrong but it is also right and also wrong.

DO NOT TRUST ON OTHERS

it is a critical time  for all parties. but it is true that congress and BJP are not faithful for support. first they can support and some interest   will create conflicts so election is the best solution. DO NOT ON OTHERS. it is the best way. because dependency is always  harmful.so make sure and say to LG, AAP IS NOT READY TO FORM THE GOVT.

homosexuality is person but behind the curtain

Why should I be denied the right to love who I want?

"The courts should be more worried about the hatred being propagated
in our society on the basis of religion, caste, community and sex.
my friend ONIR you are free to do sex to every one with your mother, sister, daughter, wife, bhabhi, father, brother, son, friends. you can do it behind the curtains. if you declare that i am sodomite or impotent and now live courageously in the society, i challenged you ,you will unable to survive. you will be known as sodomite and even your beloved wife will not accept you.
     i am unable to understand TODAY people means males and females are more about IPC SEC 377.once it is un natural,unsocial, against religion and also against guilty accepting. i know many things are still hidden in society and in the eyes of laws but not accepted by us. why you are not wandering here and there naked like Khajoraho . you play with animals.
      why we are not selecting good things . try to search good, moral and acceptable principles. why you are propagating such dirty things. every one is naked in bath room but when he comes out he covers. if you want to come naked among your family specially before mother, sister or daughter so come.
       in words it is very simple but to apply in practical will be crucial. i hope you realize and think what is good and bad. it is a person matter behind the curtains,

ANNA AND AAP DIFFERENCES SURFACED

IT is very surprising that AAP  leader has no tolerance, no respect to the opinion of other although it is the open platform and every one is addressing . so every one first listen and if some reactions are there so express after that. V K SINGH is also right and AAP LEADER GOPAL is also right. BUT IN SUCH A WAY GOPAL reacted is bad .  ANNA  interferes and the matter is in peace but under the water waves are running. every coin has two sides. we must respect the opinion of others.

RAHUL GANDHI AND ARVIND KEJARIWAL

writer has elaborately describe  the difference between both leaders.all facts are good for RAHUL.. sometime luck of the person plays vital role. secondly the nature of the individual is different,third the person must have good followers, good advisers and well wishers. we have seen that Rahul IS IMMATURE, and also inexperienced.  he must be intern for at least 5 years in administrations.he is not up to the marks. we know that he is a born politician but no knowledge about administration. he must be with in the approach of every one. today the nature of politics is changed. you will be to way from the common people and approach is difficult  so no body will like you. you must be a street leader and make sure the commitment.at first he must be a minister and learn some work, to develop knowledge and politics is a matter of daily life experiences
                   ARVIND is a person of second class community. he developed himself. he has guts to collect the people and also fought for genuine causes. . he has taken worthy steps for the society and he stood against the powerful govts like central and state. he formed the team of versatile and experienced persons , those are dedicated to him still. now he will rise up to the marks. we hope that we want good politicians. he wants CORRUPTION -LESS GOVT AND GOVT WANTS LESS - CORRUPTION. it is the one factor of fight.

north korea executes removed

his uncle is not only a traitor but he will create many problems. in the holy books clearly written that a minister of the king or ruler is corrupt,gambler  womanized  intoxicated, it is very easy to  ruin the king.secondly king should not keep the relatives ,respected,teacher, son in law and closet friends in the cabinate . minister must be helpful in needy time, in grievances,minister must be well wisher of the king.so he did worthy task to remove from all posts and set an inquiry and if he is accused  so punished him

in the land of holy MEAT EXPORT INCREASED

BEFORE  THE NATIONAL GREEN TRIBUNAL WESTERN ZONE BRANCH PUNE in an application no 21?2013 (W Z) decided on 29/11/2013 to ban the DEVNAR SLAUGHTER HOUSE . it is a very prestigious judgement delivered by Hon'ble judge Mr V.R KINGAONKAR AND HON'BLE DR AJAY A. DESHPANDEY. between AKHIL BHARTIYA GOSEWA SANGH MUMBAI  AND MP C B AND BMC. THIS judgement is worthy .
 our community JAINS had opposed the MEAT EXPORT, but govt of India, state govts and local bodies govts, police and veterinary doctors  and exporters have a clandestine nexus. they are doing all illegal acts.
we are daily watching the the meat exports are increasing and animals are in short. what will be the future of our nation and all world. if the eaters are increasing so the killings of the animals will be more.i want to know from the eaters why they are eating. for taste, health building or customary.meat has no health building  elements,no taste, toxin  elements are more.no religion says to kill the animals.
I WANT TO DRAW KIND ATTENTION "EAT MORE MEAT AND INVITE THE DISEASES OF HEART,KIDNEY, SKIN DISEASES AND MORE LOVABLE DISEASE CANCER.
any govt whose economical policy is based on violence,that nation can not develop. we are seeing/watching in our country crime rates increased. violence, murder, killings, rapes, riots are increased. because as you sow shall you reap. because when govt is propagating meat and exporting meat so our animal kingdom will be less and after some times we will unable to the animals world. mercy, compass ions and love minimized and violence, hatred and cruelly increased. we are worried for future and the the govts are unaware of such hidden causalities. we are forwarding towards DARKNESS. it is the time to propagate ANIMAL PROTECTION, VEGETARIANISM AND NON VIOLENCE.these are the foundation of peace in universe.our ministers are totally non vegetarian so how we an expect from them for establishing peace in the nation.these are the  causes of unrest, violence, diseases and mental illness.we are marching towards darkness.
    THE MEAT EXPORT MUST BE BANNED AND make a policy of animal protection. our GOI, STATE GOVTS AND LOCAL BODY GOVTS ARE DOUBLE FACED. they have no sympathies with animals. they are for money.
 I WARN ALL GOVTS TO BAN THE EXPORT OF MEAT AND MAKE A POLICY OF ANIMAL PROTECTION, IF NOT WE WILL BOYCOTT THE ELECTION OF PARLIAMENT AND WILL FIGHT AGAINST THE CONGRESS, BJP ETC.we will elect those are the followers of animal protection. we will fight against the govts from all corners.

GAYS ARE UNHAPPY

i agree with these comments and commentators.MY earnest  advise to them. DO MORE AND MORE SEXES LIKE ANIMALS. enjoy like animals. do not discriminate during sex who is he or she. may be own mother,sister, daughter, bhabhi, father, brother, son and relatives. such energy only remains in few says after that you people sit and realize how i am shy, not acceptable.like wise females do with your friends mother, sister,daughter, bhabhi, cousins  freely and enjoy. we people have no problem.BUT BAD IS BAD AND IT WILL REMAIN BAD. why  following un natural, illegal and immoral acts.we have pleasure on the verdict of the SC.

it was the fight of moral and immoral. now SC decision  has decided the character, moral. it is not not the social but also the religious, moral and humanity. we humble respect to the SC who delivered the decision. how such acts are done of such persons. it is un natural act. it is not permitted by those ,who are advocating this act.
now in our society some people will realize that it is an offense and not to propagate.I may ask to the followers that they can permit for this act to THEIR MOTHERS, SISTERS, DAUGHTERS, WIVES. AND ALSO THEIR FATHERS, BROTHERS, SONS AND RELATIVES.
      when it was treated as in human act.do not treat as religious, treat as moral. we have liberty but not want AT LIBERTY. ARGUMENTS ARE ENDLESS. BAD IS BAD , AND NONE ARE ACCEPTING. those are following FEEL GUILTY CONSCIOUS.in our society these are not honored /respected any where and even own self. i am unable to understand how they are interested in this act. this act comes under the category of sexual perversion. when you do not like to apply this act on your family members so why you are advocating such un natural act.it is not an ideal act.WHAT
it was the fight of moral and immoral. now SC decision  has decided the character, moral. it is not not the social but also the religious, moral and humanity. we humble respect to the SC who delivered the decision. how such acts are done of such persons. it is un natural act. it is not permitted by those ,who are advocating this act.

now in our society some people will realize that it is an offense and not to propagate.I may ask to the followers that they can permit for this act to THEIR MOTHERS, SISTERS, DAUGHTERS, WIVES. AND ALSO THEIR FATHERS, BROTHERS, SONS AND RELATIVES.

      when it was treated as in human act.do not treat as religious, treat as moral. we have liberty but not want AT LIBERTY. ARGUMENTS ARE ENDLESS. BAD IS BAD , AND NONE ARE ACCEPTING. those are following FEEL GUILTY CONSCIOUS.in our society these are not honored /respected any where and even own self. i am unable to understand how they are interested in this act. this act comes under the category of sexual perversion. when you do not like to apply this act on your family members so why you are advocating such un natural act.it is not an ideal act.
    ONE religious leader said that if you the desire of sex so you can do with who so
 ever  may be your nearest and dearest, is is applicable. you have courage to do sex with own female members of the family or your relatives.
     i am unable to understand the views of oppose-rs, why they are wasting time, money,energy and food in wrong and futile direction. once it is wrong, bad, un natural and unacceptable so accept. it is genuine or not. how they are feeling and what are the experiences of post acts . i can understand that they feel unhappy and sinful mind. after doing intercourse with own wife after that we realize that we have wasted. it is a very transitory moment. so lust, sex must be regulated by religion, ethics, moral. it is not the personal freedom, after that they are known as addictive s, diseased so respect the decision of SC .

SC DISPROVED HOMOSEXUALITY, A CRIME.

it was the fight of moral and immoral. now SC decision  has decided the character, moral. it is not not the social but also the religious, moral and humanity. we humble respect to the SC who delivered the decision. how such acts are done of such persons. it is un natural act. it is not permitted by those ,who are advocating this act.
now in our society some people will realize that it is an offense and not to propagate.I may ask to the followers that they can permit for this act to THEIR MOTHERS, SISTERS, DAUGHTERS, WIVES. AND ALSO THEIR FATHERS, BROTHERS, SONS AND RELATIVES.
      when it was treated as in human act.do not treat as religious, treat as moral. we have liberty but not want AT LIBERTY. ARGUMENTS ARE ENDLESS. BAD IS BAD , AND NONE ARE ACCEPTING. those are following FEEL GUILTY CONSCIOUS.in our society these are not honored /respected any where and even own self. i am unable to understand how they are interested in this act. this act comes under the category of sexual perversion. when you do not like to apply this act on your family members so why you are advocating such un natural act.it is not an ideal act.

is the world empty

it is true. now villages and micro villages are evacuated by the residents in search of education, livelihood.in many villages there are more atrocities  to poor and also castes. they are treated by many land lords and unsocial elements as a slaves. still many areas are too away from the roads, electricity, health, education, water poorest sanitation s.
in the cities the basic infrastructures were limited .now the villagers are rushing towards cities so many problems increased. law and order, traffics, water supply, education, residential s  problems so slum areas developed and they are bound to reside in unhygienic conditions. and they are living in worst states.

  some areas are barrens and lands are useless or not using. they are too away.

homosexuality is an offense SC

it was the fight of moral and immoral. now SC decision  has decided the character, moral. it is not not the social but also the religious, moral and humanity. we humble respect to the SC who delivered the decision. how such acts are done of such persons. it is un natural act. it is not permitted by those ,who are advocating this act.
now in our society some people will realize that it is an offense and not to propagate.

WAR OF EGOS between AAP AND BJP

it is the fight of egos.it is a very surprising thing that all parties are ready to serve to the people but do not want to sit on one platform. previously AAP AND BJP were against congress. now at present situation, none has clear cut majorities, secondly all are anti  and do not like to see the faces of each other. if reelection will be help, so whose exchequer will bear. we the public will suffer more. secondly what is the guarantee of the future.so it is the better time to sit and make a common agenda and follow the rule. expenses of money and non stability   of the govt is not a good sign. it is true if president's rules is imposed so the chances of congress will be in more favorable. because the public is observing the nakedness of BJP AND AAP PARTIES.IT is not a good sign.it is the matter of introspection of both parties.

FAROOQ ABDULLAH REMARKS

EVERY COIN has two sides. to respect the opinion of others. he is also right and also wrong. today if you talk or some one wants to trap in any scandal so lodge the against any man.boss etc. so burden of proof will be on your shoulders. we have seen that some revengeful  attitude , so you will be in jail. no alternate.now in ancient literature  they have mentioned that GOD is unable to know/understand the nature of women.they can go up to any extent. not only in practical life, in every day TV SHOWS are delivering new  styles/ways. in every film the villains are so death threatening  you can not  imagine.
woman is the mother of all. she is always respectable and is more than above, she is a mother, sister, daughter, wife, beloved and also ENEMY. she can ruin your life. she is most powerful. today many examples are like ASARAM, NARAYAN, TARUN, GANGULY ETC.
at present we are in such state due to woman, SANYOGITA  who was stolen by Prithviraj chouhan. JAICHAND CALLED MOHD GOURI AND NOW THE MOGHAL CAME AND WE ARE IN PRESENT STATE.
LIKE WISE MAHABHARAT AND RAMAYAN due to the magic roles of DROPADI AND SEETA. they lead teaching lives but the causes were their roles.we respect them but in our books mentioned ZAR, JORI ZAMEEN , JHAGDE KEE JAD TEEN. lands, woman and money are the causes of many disputes.but to day the atmosphere is  fearful. any one can impose any allegations and you will be behind the bars. we want to respect them and to all but the fowl plays are played by them. in this way there are two sides of a coin.one is positive and another is negative. negativity are more prevalent.so it is the duty   of every one to take preventive measures. now in this way females are at liberty. every day we are watching/reading such news/incidences.. if we are guilty so must be punished but some are intentionally involved  so he will be behind the bars.

By the grace of wisdom and purity of mind, He can be seen, indivisible, in the silence of contemplation. This invisible atman can be seen by the mind wherein the five senses are resting.

Atharva Veda 
Silence is the first door to spiritual eminence.

Adi Sankara
  Things that are real are given and received in silence. God has been everlastingly working in silence, unobserved, unheard, except by those who experience His infinite silence.

Meher Baba
Silence is a source of great strength.

Lao Tzu 
In the school of the Spirit man learns wisdom through humility, knowledge by forgetting, how to speak by silence, how to live by dying.

Johannes Tauler
I have learned silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind.

Khalil Gibran
Silence is one of the great arts of conversation.

Cicero    

49. There will always be broken hearts, there will always be days where nothing goes right. But you must accept and learn that even the most imperfect things will always be made better with love and laughter. 50. Sometimes you just have to look back at your past and smile about how far you’ve come.

47. Of all the things that can be stolen from you – your possessions, your youth, your health, your words, your rights – what no one can ever take from you is your freedom to choose what you will believe in, and who and what your heart will love. 48. When you can forgive, yourself and others, and stop the imprisonment, you’re creating the love of your life.1

45. When you find yourself cocooned in isolation and despair and cannot find your way out of the darkness, remember that this is similar to the place where caterpillars go to grow their wings. 46. Take all the time you need to heal emotionally. Moving on doesn’t take a day; it takes lots of little steps to be able to break free of your broken self.

43. Knowing yourself is one thing, but truly believing and living as yourself is another. With so much social conditioning in our society, we sometimes forget who we are. Don’t lose yourself out there. 44. The good things we build end up building us.

41. Good things don’t come to those who wait. Good things come to those who pursue the goals and dreams they believe in. 42. Don’t make a decision based solely on popularity. Just because other people are doing it doesn’t mean it’s the best choice for you.

39. The time spent on hating is the time lost for living a peaceful, happy life. It is a habit that controls what you see, what you say, what you do, and ultimately what you become. 40. Sometimes you need to be alone to reflect on life. Take time out to take care of yourself. You deserve it.

37. Life does NOT have to be perfect to be wonderful. 38. You look the best when you wear your smile. There is no beauty like the one that comes from inside you.

35. In life, you usually get what you ask for and it rarely comes in the package you think it’s supposed to come in. 36. If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.

33. Worry is a massive waste of time and energy. It doesn’t change anything. All it does is steal your joy and hinder your ability to make positive changes. 34. If you want to be happy and bright, let go of your need to always be right.

33. Worry is a massive waste of time and energy. It doesn’t change anything. All it does is steal your joy and hinder your ability to make positive changes. 34. If you want to be happy and bright, let go of your need to always be right.

31. You define your own life. Don’t let other people write your life’s story for you. 32. Don’t be afraid of change. Oftentimes you will lose something good, and then gain something even better.

29. You are responsible for how you feel no matter what someone does to you. Remember, you are always in control of your thoughts so choose to feel confident and adequate rather than angry and insecure. 30. Only when we begin to be awake do we realize just how asleep we have been.

27. Being kind to yourself in thoughts, words and actions is as important as being kind to others. 28. Death is not the greatest loss in life; the greatest loss is what dies inside while you’re still alive

25. As long as you are worried about what others think of you, you are owned by them. Only when you require no approval from outside yourself can you own yourself. 26. Don’t let anyone walk through your mind with their dirty feet.

23. You won’t always be punished FOR your anger, but you will always be punished BY your anger. 24. Give yourself permission to immediately walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or make sense of it. Just trust what you feel

21. Those who bring sunshine to the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves. 22. It’s nice to have money and the things that money can buy, but it’s also important to make sure you haven’t lost track of the things that money can’t buy

19. You can never change the past nor control the future, but you can change the mood of the day by touching someone’s heart with your smile. 20. The happiness you feel is in direct proportion to the love you give.

17. Talk about your blessings more than you talk about your problems. 18. Sometimes people throw away something good for something better, only to find out later that good was actually good enough and better never even came close.

15. Stop looking at what you have lost, so you can see what you have. 16. Someone else is happy with far less than what you have.

13. If it is detrimental to you emotionally, physically and spiritually, what choice do you have but to let go and flourish with self-respect. 14. Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting, it means you choose happiness over hurt.

11. Sometimes you’ve got to emotionally let go of the things that once meant a lot to you, so you can move beyond the past and the pains they bring you, and open the next chapter in your life. 12. If you want to get over a problem, stop mulling it over and talking about it. Your mind affects your mouth, and your mouth affects your mind. It’s nearly impossible to move beyond something when you’re obsessing over it.

7. Sometimes life gives you two options: losing yourself or losing someone else. Regardless of the situation, don’t lose yourself. 8. If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, you do have a pretty big problem.

9. Whatever someone did to you in the past has no power over the present. Only you give it power. 10. Know your worth! When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back.

happiness 50 quotes

Here are some happiness quotes to brighten your day and move your mindset in a positive direction...
1. Smile every chance you get. Not because life has been easy, perfect, or exactly as you had anticipated, but because you choose to be happy and grateful for all the good things you do have and all the problems you know you don’t have. 2. Never let a bad day make you feel like you have a bad life.
3. A bad attitude is like a flat tire, you can’t get very far until you change it. 4. The more you love your decisions, the less you need others to love them.

5. It’s important to make someone happy, and it’s important to start with yourself. 6. Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design into the present.

5. It’s important to make someone happy, and it’s important to start with yourself. 6. Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design into the present.

5. It’s important to make someone happy, and it’s important to start with yourself. 6. Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design into the present.

nelson mandela died

GREAT worrier of modern time.he fought bravely against cast , creed and color. he won the fight on all venues. his loss was certain but he lived bravely.

diggi praises modi

Digvijay singh''s statement is not wrong. it is the part of democracy every one has an opportunity to become the highest post bearer. it also depends on the will /desires of the people.we know that nothing is impossible but modi is not fit for the post. he is manner less,egoistic and his visions are not clear. yes SHUSHMA /ARUN are fit for the post they can lead the nation in better state. 

make milk adulteration punishable

it is a best way to control the sale, supply of of adulterated milk.now it is the part of states to make sure to follow the guide lines issued by the apex court. such milk is not only injurious to health but also it is a heinous crime committed by those are preparing,sale and supplying..such acts are done by those under the nose of the state , local bodies officers. it means local and state govts are totally involved.so these bodies must be strict and must follow the orders and also established laws and amend the laws.

tejpal said it is consensual

it means he did with her consent. ok .it means he  did with he consent, means she was ready, means he has not committed any crime. now when she was agree then why she lodged the complained against him.it is a good way of defense.  but when one has objections so it is treated as a crime. if committed must be punished.

life style of in bed room

Bedroom decor should have a romantic essence to it, don't you think?

Considering that we spend a major part of our lives in our bedrooms, we should make it one of the most comfortable zones in our homes. It should be a room that spells romance and makes you feel good as soon as you step inside — a space that stimulates your senses. So, what do you need to make your boudoir a cosy love nest? Read on to find out some tips...

Make it look great
The way your bedroom is lit, can make or break the look you want to create. Interior designer Ketki Passi says, "The right kind of lighting can help create a romantic ambience."

Candles can work wonders — they are what romance is all about. the mysterious light and shadow effect of a candle can give a very special aura to yourndles can work wonders — they are what romance is all about. the mysterious light and shadow effect of a candle can give a very special aura to your bedroom. Bright, harsh bulbs are a big no-no. For the ideal romantic look dim, soft lights are key. Use heavy curtains to escape the glare of harsh street-lights. Of course, table and floor lamps are indispensable.

Make it comfortable
A bed that looks comfortable is a basic essential here. Four-poster beds look romantic. Use light fabric drapes in pastel shades around the bed to get a soft look. When it comes to bedspreads and covers, avoid rough and uncomfortable fabrics — soft, smooth and comfortable ones like satin, silk and very good quality airy cotton are essential. Using sexy colours makes your room look, well, sexy. Choose bright bold colours like red, orange or rust.

Place plush pillows on the bed of different sizes to make it look comfortable and inviting. Two large pillows, four medium rectangular pillows and around four to five smaller square cushions. A fluffy and soft comforter can add to the romantic look.

Prioritise privacy
Curtains spell romance — pretty, flimsy, sheer curtains that sway with the breeze, light ones in lovely pastel shades that leave you feeling calm and relaxed. Of course, you should also have those heavy drapes to guard your privacy.

Indulge the senses
Romance is about titillating the senses and the sense of smell is important. Spraying room freshener is passe. Opt for fragrances of incense sticks, scented sachet, aromatic candles in lavender, vanilla, and camomile etc. Go and have fun doing up your bedroom!

Bedroom decor should have a romantic essence to it, don't you think?

Considering that we spend a major part of our lives in our bedrooms, we should make it one of the most comfortable zones in our homes. It should be a room that spells romance and makes you feel good as soon as you step inside — a space that stimulates your senses. So, what do you need to make your boudoir a cosy love nest? Read on to find out some tips...

Make it look great
The way your bedroom is lit, can make or break the look you want to create. Interior designer Ketki Passi says, "The right kind of lighting can help create a romantic ambience."

Candles can work wonders — they are what romance is all about. the mysterious light and shadow effect of a candle can give a very special aura to your bedroom. Bright, harsh bulbs are a big no-no. For the ideal romantic look dim, soft lights are key. Use heavy curtains to escape the glare of harsh street-lights. Of course, table and floor lamps are indispensable.

Make it comfortable
A bed that looks comfortable is a basic essential here. Four-poster beds look romantic. Use light fabric drapes in pastel shades around the bed to get a soft look. When it comes to bedspreads and covers, avoid rough and uncomfortable fabrics — soft, smooth and comfortable ones like satin, silk and very good quality airy cotton are essential. Using sexy colours makes your room look, well, sexy. Choose bright bold colours like red, orange or rust.

Place plush pillows on the bed of different sizes to make it look comfortable and inviting. Two large pillows, four medium rectangular pillows and around four to five smaller square cushions. A fluffy and soft comforter can add to the romantic look.

Prioritise privacy
Curtains spell romance — pretty, flimsy, sheer curtains that sway with the breeze, light ones in lovely pastel shades that leave you feeling calm and relaxed. Of course, you should also have those heavy drapes to guard your privacy.

Indulge the senses
Romance is about titillating the senses and the sense of smell is important. Spraying room freshener is passe. Opt for fragrances of incense sticks, scented sachet, aromatic candles in lavender,

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quick tips to clean kitchen

Begin by cleaning your kitchen counters. If you don't use your juicer everyday, the ideal things is to stash it away somewhere out of sight and away from your kitchen counter.
Do away with everything that you think you are not going to use in the next couple of days. Then, spray liquid cleaner and wipe the counter clean.

Clean your gas stove/hob or oven. Make sure all the grime and the spills are wiped clean.
Next, clean your refrigerator. Check what the leftovers are discard them. Find out which of the bottles are almost empty, or are too old. Remove the shelves and clean them. Clean the outside as well as the inside of the fridge with a soft cloth.
Make sure your sink is free of clutter. Wash and stack away your dishes and utensils. clean the sink once it is clutter-free. Remove stubborn stains. Finish by rubbing it dry.
Clean the floor of your kitchen last. Pick all the debris that you had thrown onto the floor from the counter top and the over and the toaster etc.

modi is not fit for PM POST

these  exit polls result indicate the down fall of the  congress party. BJP is rising but such indicate the acceptance of the public. all parties are dependent  on the voting. at present the voters are much more confused. one side price hikes and corruptions so on other sides communal fighting and uncertainty of the future of the nation. BJP has MODI like leader who has no visions. always disputed statements and egoistic nature so we do not like him  as PM. HE is not fit for the post of PM. HE IS NOT SUITABLE. he is a mad  and narrow minded person.we discard him.