CHILD IS THE BOON OF GOD

there is a one concept that if you are building the house, purchasing the car, or visiting any where so it requires money but for the child birth it requires no  money only the meeting of sperms and ovum for husband and wife. after the conception then money is needed. so we are all the product or by product of our parents enjoyment and lust sex. in other words we are the unwanted child of our parents. we are born accidentally and by the enjoyment or sex of parents. nothing else. so we are priceless, pleasure product. no additional expenses after that we do expense on their livelihood.so no cast and enjoyment's product. after we are born so become disturbing part of their marrying life. so during sex no body wants disturbances at  cost and the love/affection/ affinity some time diminishes and for the sharing of the love each one thinks the lack of affection. but in my opinion it must be increased.if we hate our child so its reflection appears /effects on the child. during that time he remains helpless anfter he grows and matures so he starts hating to the mother or father. it is also true that during the conception to birth all our emotions effect on the child. if we love or hate it appears on our life time. he understands our emotions, habits, love, affection, hate, dis likings. in the womb of Dropadi ABHIMANYU learned about the chakra view  and during the conversation he slept so he was unable to come out. so it indicates that during the womb every activities of our effect on the fetus . so if you want characterful child so show him ,