Tuesday, 3 July 2012

ways of ageing gracefully

संसार से भागे फिरते हो, कहाँ कहाँ भटकोगेit is very true that after retirement  every body wants to settle his life peacefully and planned, but it is not happened. our liabilities and responsibilities are endless.it that age  it is very difficult to mold your self. expectation is the cause of sorrowfulness.we expect after our sons to help us, cooperate us and also to respect us , if not becomes sorrow, like wise the daughters are married so their married life is satisfactory.
 i am remembering one instance , there were MAN, DONKEY, DOG AND OWL they have 40 years of ideal life given by BRAMHA JI , after returning from the meeting with Brahma ji. man told to donkey, dog and owl that what is use of 40 years of life for you. so please give me 20 years of their lives to me . they have given so man became 100years man(shatayu). after that up to the age of 40 man is man. after 40 to 60 years he remains like donkey to carry the burden of the fammily, to construct the house, marriages of son and daughter. andhe passed60 years time as donkey. after 60 to 80 years he acts like dog. to watch the house, send the the grand children to school, look after them and remains like house keepers.after 80 to 100he comes like owl, unable to see,hear, and concentration. he asked to any one who are you, how you are, from where you are coming. so in this way man becomes SHATAYU.
 it is the matter of practice . it should be start from that stage when you have a knowledge of interpretation. read the holy and religious books and realize the naked truth of the family life. in true sense you are born alone so will die alone. no body bothers for you so try to become selfish means to improve your self . try to live in detached state. minimize the wants and satisfaction and to enjoy what you have,contentment must be. planned post retirement life and keep your money and assets of your own. and wandering in vanprasth is not ideal. where you will go. wandering is not the solution. to understand your self and improve your self. minimize the sins and negativity, anger, pride, deceit and  greed are harmful and violence, untruthfulness, stealth, possession, and lust   means sins and kashayas will lead your life in painful and distress.these things are the causes of rebirth. mental physical economical, social and spiritual well being ness  must be there.less intention less tension,more intentions more tensions and no intention no tension. wandering is not the solution.if you are in the search of peace and serenity so go to HIMALAYA , so there is peace. you sit in the crowded city square and realizes the peace and tranquility.it is my opinion. may be right or wrong.

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