this story is very charming in the TV or in words, but it is in reality
to away from the facts. before marriage of a son he is totally dependent
on his parents.after marriage if his wife is the same temperament of
his husband so it is well and good , but if she is opposite to his husband so no chances of compassion. i am not alleging only TO the BAHU.
some times /mostly mother in laws also play wrong attitudes role. they
are not proper responding to their bahus. both are reciprocally
dependent and independent.
i have observed that the males like husband, father, brothers do not interfere in the homely matters but if elder brother's wife, his sisters played crucial roles in this matter. it is true that the new arrival bahu is not aware of new house nature, culture and attitudes so it is the beginning of the disputes, the bahu has some expectations from her husband and family members. it is one proverb ' WHEN LOVE BECOMES THICK SO HATE BECOMES THIN, WHEN HATE IS THICK SO LOVE BECOMES THIN"
it is the matter of research how enmity starts. the role of son/ husband becomes very crucial. one side wife and other side parents and family members. if the sources of incomes are sound so disputes delay if not so begins as early as possible. it is not to be eliminated.
suppose separation is the best solution then the dispute arises between husband and wife. history repeats it self.
the problem is serious and solutions are simple if you respect the opinions of others. if bahu will start mutual understanding and also aware of own future so the problem will be minimized.so to respect each other and follow the right conduct and try tominimize the conflict is the best solution.
i have observed that the males like husband, father, brothers do not interfere in the homely matters but if elder brother's wife, his sisters played crucial roles in this matter. it is true that the new arrival bahu is not aware of new house nature, culture and attitudes so it is the beginning of the disputes, the bahu has some expectations from her husband and family members. it is one proverb ' WHEN LOVE BECOMES THICK SO HATE BECOMES THIN, WHEN HATE IS THICK SO LOVE BECOMES THIN"
it is the matter of research how enmity starts. the role of son/ husband becomes very crucial. one side wife and other side parents and family members. if the sources of incomes are sound so disputes delay if not so begins as early as possible. it is not to be eliminated.
suppose separation is the best solution then the dispute arises between husband and wife. history repeats it self.
the problem is serious and solutions are simple if you respect the opinions of others. if bahu will start mutual understanding and also aware of own future so the problem will be minimized.so to respect each other and follow the right conduct and try tominimize the conflict is the best solution.
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